
Your Movement Is Valid—Exactly as It Is
Before we go further, let's be clear about something important: movement looks different for everyone. There is no "right" way for a body to move.
Whether you:
● Move with assistance or adaptive equipment
● Prefer or need chair-based movement
● Have chronic pain that limits certain motions
● Experience fluctuating energy and ability levels
● Have a neurodivergent experience of movement
Your movement is valid. Full stop.
The invitation here isn't to move like someone else or achieve a particular range of motion—it's to connect with your unique body in ways that feel supportive and meaningful for you.
Movement might be as subtle as mindful breathing, gentle finger stretches, or small shifts in posture. It might be exploring what feels good within your specific parameters today (which might be different from yesterday or tomorrow).
What matters isn't the external appearance of movement, but your internal experience of it—the
connection, care, and consciousness you bring to however your body expresses itself.
Hello Beautiful,
When was the last time you moved your body simply because it felt good?
Not because you were trying to burn calories, tone up, or tick "exercise" off your to-do list—but just because it brought you joy or relief?
For many of us, movement has become another item on our endless checklist of things we "should" do. Another area where we're not doing enough, not doing it right, or not seeing the results we've been promised. What if we could reclaim movement as something that belongs to us? Something that's not about punishment or obligation, but about expression, pleasure, and deep listening to what our bodies truly need?
How We Lost Our Natural Way of Moving
As little ones, we moved instinctively. We stretched when we woke up. We jumped when we felt excited. We danced when we heard music that stirred something inside us. We didn't think about "getting our steps in" or "feeling the burn"—we simply responded to what our bodies asked for.
Somewhere along the way, many of us lost that natural relationship with movement.
We learned that:
● Movement is primarily for changing our appearance
● There are "right" and "wrong" ways to move
● Movement needs to be intense to "count"
● Movement is something we do to our bodies, not with them
● Movement is measured in calories, steps, or minutes—not in joy or ease.
It's no wonder so many of us have complicated relationships with exercise. When something natural becomes another source of pressure and judgment, of course we resist it!
The Difference Between Exercise and Movement
Let's make a gentle distinction here. There's nothing wrong with structured exercise if it genuinely serves you. But movement is a much broader category that includes:
● Stretching when your body feels stiff
● Dancing in your kitchen to your favourite song
● Walking mindfully through a park or garden
● Gentle yoga flows that release tension
● Swimming that makes you feel weightless and free
● Gardening that connects you to the earth
● Playing with children or pets
All of these count as movement—and they all offer benefits beyond what any fitness tracker could measure.
Why Meaningful Movement Matters
When we move with meaning and intention, we:
● Release physical tension that holds emotional stress
● Connect with our bodies as sources of wisdom rather than problems to fix
● Express feelings that might be difficult to put into words
● Create moments of presence in our busy days
● Build a compassionate relationship with our physical selves
● Find joy in the simple gift of having a body that can move
Research even suggests that our mindset about movement may be just as important as the movement itself. When we see movement as something nurturing rather than punishing, our bodies respond differently at a physiological level!
Finding Your Personal Movement Language
Just as we each have our own unique voice, we each have our own unique movement language—the ways of moving that feel most natural and nourishing to our particular bodies.
Your movement language might be:
● Flowing and fluid, like water finding its path
● Rhythmic and steady, with satisfying repetition
● Playful and spontaneous, changing with your moods
● Slow and deliberate, savouring each sensation
● Expressive and dramatic, telling stories through motion
● Gentle and minimal, where small movements carry deep intention
● Supported and assisted, using props, chairs, or adaptive tools
There's no right or wrong here—only what feels authentic to you. And this language might change depending on what your body needs on any given day or how your abilities fluctuate.
Learning to Listen Before You Move
Before you can move with meaning, you need to listen to what your body is actually asking for.
This might feel strange at first, especially if you've been following prescribed workouts or pushing through discomfort.
Here's a simple practice to try:
1. Take a moment to sit or stand quietly, eyes closed if that feels comfortable
2. Place one hand on your heart and one on your belly
3. Take three slow breaths, letting your awareness settle into your body
4. Ask yourself gently: "What kind of movement would feel good right now?"
5. Notice what arises—it might be a word, an image, a memory, or a physical sensation
6. Honour whatever answer comes, even if it surprises you
Sometimes your body might ask for vigorous movement to release pent-up energy. Other times it might crave gentle stretching or even rest. Learning to differentiate between these signals is a practice in itself.
Five Ways to Bring More Meaning to Your Movement
1. Set an intention
Before you begin moving, take a moment to set an intention. This could be as simple as "I move to feel more spacious" or "I move to celebrate what my body can do today." This shifts your focus from external goals to internal experience.
2. Match your movement to your mood
Different emotional states call for different kinds of movement. When you're feeling:
● Anxious: Rhythmic, grounding movements (like walking or gentle swaying)
● Low energy: Gentle stretching or slow flows that awaken rather than deplete
● Stuck or stagnant: Movements that create a sense of expansion and opening
● Overwhelmed: Simple, repetitive movements that create a sense of order
● Joyful: Expressive, playful movements that amplify your natural state
3. Move to music that moves you
Music has a profound effect on how we experience movement. Create playlists that evoke different feelings, and let your body respond naturally to the sounds. You might be surprised at how music can unlock new ways of moving that you wouldn't discover otherwise.
4. Find your "movement anchors"
Identify a few simple movements that consistently feel good in your body, and return to these when you feel disconnected or uncertain. These become your movement anchors—reliable ways to come home to yourself through physical sensation.
5. End with a moment of gratitude
After moving, take a moment to thank your body for carrying you through your day, for healing itself, for all the things it does without you having to think about them. This simple practice can transform your relationship with your physical self over time.
What You Might Discover Through Meaningful Movement
When women in our community begin moving with meaning rather than for external validation, they often report:
● Feeling more at home in their bodies
● Discovering new sources of creativity and insight
● Experiencing movement as a form of self-care rather than self-correction
● Finding it easier to maintain consistent movement practices
● Noticing improvements in mood and energy levels
● Developing more compassion for their physical selves
Our Movement Practices This Month
In our accompanying videos this month, we've partnered with a wonderful movement instructor who's created two different movement experiences for you to explore:
Video 1: Gentle Embodiment Flow
A slow, mindful sequence that combines elements of stretching, gentle movement, and breath awareness. Perfect for days when you need nurturing movement or as a way to start connecting with your body. This practice includes chair-based options and modifications for different mobility levels.
Video 2: Joyful Expression Flow
A more energetic routine that invites you to move with rhythm and playfulness. Ideal for when you're craving a bit more movement or want to shift stagnant energy. This practice also includes seated variations and suggestions for adapting movements to suit your body's unique needs.
The most important part of either practice isn't the movements themselves—it's the awareness you bring to how you feel before and after. We'll guide you to check in with yourself:
Before moving: Notice your energy level, emotional state, and any physical sensations. Maybe jot down a few words or rate your energy from 1-10.
After moving: Check in again. What's shifted? How has your mood, energy, or physical sensation changed? There's no right answer here—just valuable information about how different types of movement affect you uniquely.
This before-and-after practice helps you develop your body literacy—the ability to understand what your body is telling you and what it needs in different moments. Over time, this becomes a superpower for self-care!
Your Invitation This Month
As June unfolds, we invite you to experiment with movement as self-expression rather than self-improvement. Perhaps you might:
● Dance or sway gently for a few minutes before starting your day
● Take a mindful moment to notice the sensations in your body
● Stretch in ways that feel good when you wake up or before sleep
● Move in response to different kinds of music and notice what emerges
● Focus on just one part of your body that wants attention today
● Explore seated movement if standing movement isn't accessible
● Notice micro-movements—the subtle ways your body already moves naturally
Remember that movement doesn't need to be separate from the rest of your life. It can be woven into your day in small, meaningful moments—a gentle stretch while waiting for the kettle to boil, moving your hands or shoulders between tasks, or simply taking a moment to feel the weight of your body being supported. What might change if you approached movement not as another obligation, but as a conversation with your body—one where you're genuinely curious about what it has to say?
For more activity and exercise with Charm visit Zumba - Ditch the Workout, Join the Party
Join us next month when we explore "Creativity as Calm"—Discovering how creative play can sooth your nervous system.
Until then, move gently, move with meaning and most importantly, move in ways that remind you that your body is your ally, not your project.
The Mindful Brew Team
A project by Empowered Women UK, funded by The National Lottery Community Fund
To watch our Mindful Movement sessions with Charm Daley click on the link below and you will be able to watch on YouTube. You will be able to add subtitles in your preferred language. Please use the movement videos as often as you like, Charm's enthusiasm is infectious, and adapt the movements to suit your body. Like Charm says 'It's your body and your business' :)
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